Monday, March 9, 2009

More Daughter drama

Once again I am dealing with Kayla drama in my life. She is driving me absolutely up the wall lately. It seems that all she does is lie and lie some more. I happen to know some things that are fact and she is trying to lie to me and tell me that I don't know what I am talking about, well I do and I got it straight from the horses mouth. She is up to her games again as far as her boyfriend is concerned. She twisted a break up to be his fault when she knew good and well that he wasn't the one that started it or wanted it. I guess when you hear "well maybe we should just be friends" or "maybe we need a break a long break" enough then you are bound to agree to with her. Well that is what happened, he sent a text agreeing with what she said and therefore is telling everyone that he broke up with her when she knows good and damn well that isn't the case. This boy is crazy nuts over her and she is just leading him on and it is starting to piss me off royally. On one hand she is telling her friends that he dumped her and that she hates him, while on the other hand she is flirting with him and calling him cute and everything. Well the other day he came to our house (we weren't home but I gave him permission to come) and brought her a letter and when he gave her the letter he leaned in and kissed her. Now according to her this was the one reason that she was upset with him and wanted the break b/c he was too chicken to kiss her, well he did it and I am so proud of him! But now Kayla is once again playing with this boys heart. She says things to piss me off too like talking about other boys that are soo cute and blah blah, she does this b/c she knows that it gets to me. I need to stop letting things get to me so much and learn to pick my battles I guess. I told her that if she didn't want this boy then to let him go, totally let him go and not text him or anything anymore and she won't do it. She is still texting him and flirting with him and giving the poor boy mixed signals, I feel bad for him b/c he has no clue from one day to the next what she is going to be like and that isn't fair to him. I have tried to tell him that maybe he should move on but he isn't budging, I think he loves her. I think she is falling for him and is too scared about what that means, but then again that could be my wishful thinking too. She treats him crappy most of the time, two weeks ago we go away for Momentum and the whole time she treated him like he was beneath her. She was mad b/c there were other cute boys and she didn't get to flirt. Oh well too bad! She seriously needs to do some major growing up and soon! Like I said I really like this boy and he is everything that she has been looking for (she has a list) and last night she is smelling her hoodie and looked disapointed b/c his cologne smell was gone. I don't know how to read to her. On one hand I think she enjoys having a boyfriend and on the other hand I think she enjoys being single. Well I am not going to put up with this much longer for sure, she is going to make up her mind or else her dad and I will make it up for her and if we do that then she won't be dating anyone for a long time. She has some major maturing to do!! Until the next drama...

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